Embracing Hope and Love: February’s Children’s Revival of Participation at Sunday Mass.

Kelly Gallagher
Monday, February 3, 2025

As the cold winter days of February unfold, we find ourselves in a month filled with symbols of love and hope. Valentine’s Day, a celebration of affection and kindness, offers a perfect opportunity to reflect on the deeper meanings of these virtues.

The Spirit of Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day is more than just a day for exchanging cards and gifts; it celebrates love in all forms. It’s a time to show appreciation for those who bring joy and warmth into our lives. By encouraging children to participate in Mass, we teach them the importance of expressing love and kindness, not just on Valentine’s Day but throughout the year.

February: A Month of Renewal

Often seen as a month of transition, February holds the promise of spring and new beginnings. It’s a time to renew our spirits and look forward to the brighter days ahead. This sense of renewal is mirrored in our efforts to actively involve children in the Sunday Mass. Their energy and enthusiasm bring a fresh perspective to our worship, reminding us of the hope and joy that faith can bring.

A Personal Story of Hope and Love

I remember a particular Sunday Mass many years ago in February when I first introduced the idea of my children making friendship bracelets. My daughter, Katie, was so excited to participate. She spent hours carefully selecting beads and colors, ensuring each bracelet was perfect. On the day of the Mass, she proudly handed out her creations to the elderly members of our congregation.

One elderly gentleman, Mr. Thompson, was especially touched. He had recently lost his wife and was feeling quite lonely. Katie’s simple act of kindness brought tears to his eyes. He later told me that the bracelet reminded him of the love and support he still had within the community. It was a powerful reminder of how small gestures can make a big difference.

Years later, with my daughter’s help, we turned this bracelet-making activity into a 15-minute-before or after-Mass activity. I have included the instructions below.

As we celebrate Valentine’s Day and the month of February, let us remember the power of hope and love. By fostering these values in our children and encouraging their active participation in Mass, we are building a stronger, more compassionate community. Together, we can create an environment where everyone feels valued and loved and where the spirit of hope shines brightly.

Let us embrace this month with open hearts, ready to share the love and hope that our faith inspires. Happy Valentine’s Day, and may February bring renewal, hope, and joy to us all.

 

Valentine’s Day Bead Friendship Bracelets

 

Materials Needed:

Beads (various colors and shapes)

Elastic cord or string

Scissors

Small charms (optional)

Bead stopper or tape

 

Instructions:

1. Gather Your Materials:

Lay out all your beads, elastic cord, scissors, and any charms you want to use. This will make the process smoother.

2. Measure and Cut the Cord:

Measure the elastic cord around your wrist, leaving a little extra length for tying knots. Cut the cord to the desired length.

3. Prepare the Cord:

To prevent beads from falling off as you work, place a bead stopper or a piece of tape at one end of the cord.

4. Design Your Pattern:

Plan your bead pattern. You can use a mix of colors, shapes, and sizes. If you’re using charms, decide where you want to place them.

5. String the Beads:

Start threading the beads onto the cord. If you’re using a charm, place it in the middle or at your desired spot. Continue adding beads until you reach the desired length.

6. Check the Fit:

Wrap the bracelet around your wrist to ensure it fits comfortably. Adjust the number of beads if necessary.

7. Tie the Knot:

Once you’re happy with the length, tie a secure knot at the end of the bracelet. You can tie a double or triple knot to ensure it stays in place.

8. Trim the Excess Cord:

Carefully trim any excess cord close to the knot. Be cautious not to cut too close to the knot to avoid it coming undone.

9. Secure the Knot (Optional):

You can add a drop of clear nail polish or glue to the knot for extra security. Let it dry completely before wearing the bracelet.

10. Enjoy Your Bracelet:

Your Valentine’s Day bead friendship bracelet is ready to wear or gift to a friend!

Tips:

· Mix and match bead colors to create unique designs.

· Use letter beads to spell out names or special messages.

· Make multiple bracelets to stack together for a fun look.

 

Packaging your Valentine’s Day bead friendship bracelets (Optional – (This will add another 15 minutes to your project.)

Packaging your bracelets as gifts can make them even more special. Here are some creative and simple ideas:

Materials Needed:

Small gift boxes or organza bags

Tissue paper or decorative paper

Ribbon or twine

Gift tags or small cards

Stickers or embellishments (optional)

 

Instructions:

1. Choose Your Packaging:

Select small gift boxes or organza bags that will fit your bracelets. These can be found at craft stores or online.

2. Prepare the Packaging:

If using a gift box, line it with tissue paper or decorative paper. This adds a nice touch and protects the bracelet.

3. Place the Bracelet:

Gently place the bracelet inside the box or bag. If you use a box, you can wrap the bracelet in tissue paper for extra protection.

4. Add a Personal Touch:

Write a heartfelt message on a gift tag or small card. Attach it to the box or bag with ribbon or twine. You can also add stickers or other embellishments to personalize the packaging.

5. Secure the Packaging:

If using a box, close it securely and tie a ribbon or twine around it. For organza bags, pull the drawstrings to close.

6. Final Touches:

For an extra special touch, add any final decorations, such as small charms or beads, to the ribbon or twine.

Tips:

· Use colors that match the Valentine’s Day theme, such as red, pink, and white.

· If you have multiple bracelets, you can create a set and pack them together in a slightly larger box.

 

These simple steps will help you create beautiful and thoughtful gift packages for your Valentine’s Day bead friendship bracelets. Enjoy the process!